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The Dollar Tree Detonation: A Southern Tragedy in One Aisle

“I didn’t just fart at Dollar Tree. I spiritually pressure‑washed aisle three. And my son treated it like the Super Bowl halftime show.”

–This Puzzled Life

Light the charcoal. Sprinkle the sage. Negative energy go away. Lord knows what happened in Dollar Tree today was not of this realm. The air shifted. The ancestors paused. And even the off‑brand greeting cards seemed to lean back like, “Now hold on, what was that?” I swear the whole store took one collective inhale. And my spirit briefly left my body to file a complaint with the universe.

I walked into that store with dignity, purpose, and a buggy that already had one wheel screaming for help. I was just trying to buy some cheap sponges and mind my business. But the universe said, “No ma’am, today you will be humbled.” And my son? My own child stood beside me ready to witness my downfall like he bought front‑row tickets. What happened next could only be described as a biological betrayal wrapped in a spiritual lesson wrapped in a $1.25 price tag.

In the Deep South, conservative Christians act like they’re the self‑appointed referees of Southern Decency. And they’re ready to blow a whistle the second somebody steps outside the invisible rulebook of “proper behavior.” These are the same folks who will gasp so hard they inhale their own dentures if a woman accidentally lets one slip in Dollar Tree. Yet they’ll turn right around and scream at a Little League umpire like they’re auditioning for a demon‑possession documentary. They’ll tell you to “act right,” “sit pretty,” and “hold it in.” As if the Lord Himself is grading your internal plumbing.

Meanwhile, I’m over here trying to survive humidity, motherhood, and Dollar Tree air pressure. And my son is announcing my bodily failures like he’s the town crier. And southern properness never stood a chance.

Let me set the scene. It’s a peaceful Saturday at Dollar Tree. The kind of day where the fluorescent lights hum like they’re praying for release. And every shelf leans just a little to the left. I’m minding my business. Pushing my buggy with the wobbling wheel. And trying to decide if I need another pack of off‑brand sponges that dissolve on contact with water. My son is beside me, living his best life. He’s touching everything he shouldn’t. Narrating loudly like he’s the Dollar Tree David Attenborough. 

And then, my stomach shifts. Not a warning shift. Not a polite “hey girl, maybe walk slower” shift. No. This was the tectonic‑plate‑sliding, earth‑core‑rumbling shift of a woman who had coffee, anxiety, and a questionable breakfast. I try to hold it. I really do. But the Dollar Tree air pressure said absolutely not. And out it came. A fart so sharp, so sudden, so disrespectful to the floor that even the wind chimes in aisle seven stopped vibrating.

I froze. My soul left my body. I saw my ancestors shaking their heads. But my son? My child? My flesh and blood? The one I fed, raised, and protected? This boy collapsed. Not physically but emotionally. He folded like a Dollar Tree lawn chair. He screamed laughing. Not giggled. Not chuckled. Screamed. Like he was being tickled by the Holy Spirit of Comedy. “Oh my god, mom farted! Mom blew up the store!” He is pointing. He is wheezing. He is reenacting the sound like a sound‑effects intern on a cartoon.

Meanwhile, I’m standing there like a scandalized Victorian who just watched someone fry chicken in margarine. Serve instant mashed potatoes at Sunday dinner. And then announce they ‘don’t really like biscuits’ in front of the whole congregation. While also praying the security cameras don’t have audio.

And does he protect me? Does he shield his mother, the woman who helped give him life? Absolutely not. This boy is auditioning for a Netflix comedy special in aisle three. A woman two aisles over peeks around the corner like she’s checking for storm damage. A toddler starts crying. A pack of balloons rustles like they’re trying to escape.

My beloved child is now telling strangers, “It shook the shelves! I think she made the plastic storage bins vibrate!” I’m trying to walk away with dignity. But you can’t walk away with dignity when your own kid is narrating your fart like it’s breaking news.

By the time we get to the checkout, he’s still giggling, breathless, and still wiping tears. The cashier looks at me like she knows. She knows. I swipe my card in silence while praying the Lord will swallow me whole. Or at least cut the power so the cameras reset. We leave the store. My son looks at me with pure joy and betrayal in his eyes and says, “That was the best day of my life!” And honestly? I can’t even be mad.

If motherhood has taught me anything, it’s this. Your kids will not protect your dignity. They will not guard your secrets. They will not cover your shame. But they WILL laugh until they almost pass out. And somehow, that’s love. Lord, restore my dignity.

 After today, I’m convinced Dollar Tree needs to sage me out of the building. My son is still laughing like he just watched a stand‑up special written by the Holy Ghost. The cashier is probably telling her coworkers about “the woman who shook aisle three.” And I’m at home trying to process how a single fart turned into a family‑wide comedy event with zero protection from the child. But that’s motherhood in the Deep South. Your kids won’t shield your reputation. But they’ll sure holler it across the store like they’re calling hogs. And honestly? If laughter adds years to your life, my son will live to be 147. Thanks for reading! Keep laughing.

Affirmation: I release shame like I released that Dollar Tree thunder, and I stand tall knowing laughter is my legacy.

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Piper’s Prison Break: The Humidity Strikes Back

“Freedom is sweaty. And I reject it.”

 -Piper, Survivor of Hell’s Front Porch

 Light the charcoal. Sprinkle the sage. Turn the thermostat down to “Don’t Play With Me.” Today’s story begins with Piper. She’s my overly chaotic, dramatic, emotionally unstable lead actress. She is waking up. Stretching her little diva paws. And declaring, “I live in a PRISON. A carceral state. A maximum‑security facility with no parole.” Why? Because I wouldn’t let her go outside at 8:03 AM to fight a butterfly. But then. I opened the door. And Mississippi humidity said, “Come here, sweetheart. Let me teach you something.”

Me: “Alright Piper, you wanna go outside? Go ahead.”

Piper (strutting like she’s leading a protest): “ I will taste freedom! I will breathe liberty! I will-”

The door opens. The humidity hits her like a wet spiritual slap.

Piper: “What is this? Why is the air touching me?”

Coco (from the hallway, eating an imaginary snack):“I told her. I told her. But she thinks she’s the main character.”

Tinkerbell (adjusting her invisible glasses): “Statistically speaking. She lasted longer than expected. I predicted immediate collapse.”

Piper takes one step outside. One. Single. Step. Her fur frizzes. Her soul leaves her body. Her whiskers droop like overcooked noodles.

Piper: “I am melting. I am being steamed like a dumpling. Call 911.”

Me: “Baby, that’s just humidity.”

Piper: “This is a hate crime!”

She turns around dramatically. Panting like she just crossed the Sahara.

Piper: “Let me back in. I have been assaulted by the sky.”

I open the door. She collapses onto the floor like a Victorian widow whose fainting couch was repossessed.

Piper: “I take back everything I said. This is not a prison. This is a climate‑controlled sanctuary of salvation.”

Coco: “Mm‑hmm. And next time you’ll listen to your elders.”

Tinkerbell: “Unlikely. She has the memory of a wet sock.”

Piper: “I have been traumatized. I need compensation. I need snacks. I need-”

Me: “You need to sit down and stop being dramatic.”

Piper: “I am a victim of the outdoors!”

And that is how Piper went from “I am an oppressed inmate” to “I would like to personally thank the HVAC industry for its service.” All in under 12 seconds. The South didn’t just humble her. It baptized her in sweat. Snatched her ego. And sent her home reborn.

I would like to personally nominate the air conditioner for the Nobel Peace Prize.” The South sautéed her. Seasoned her. And served her back to the living room like a damp little cautionary tale.

So, the next time Piper demands “freedom,” open the door. Let the humidity slap her with a warm, wet truth. And remember, “Sometimes the lesson isn’t deep. Sometimes the lesson is, “Get back inside before you melt.” Thermostat lowered. Ego evaporated. Thanks for reading! And praise be for air conditioning. Can you relate?

Affirmation: “I honor my boundaries, my AC unit, and my right to stay indoors. Where the air is cold. The humidity is low. And the cats are only moderately feral.”

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Budtender Moment: Viper Crumble Strain Review

“Viper Crumble hit me so fast I thought a cottonmouth was side‑eyeing me from the azalea bushes again. But it was just my anxiety slithering away.”

-Piper “Snake Whisperer”, Unofficial Yard Patrol Captain

Light the citronella candle, put on your yard shoes, and tell Piper to stop pawing at the screen door like she’s ready to fight wildlife. Today’s Budtender Moment is a full‑on Deep South summer survival guide disguised as a strain review. We’re talking Viper Crumble, the strain that strikes quick, coils around your stress, and drags it off into the woods like a reptile with a mission. Tap the bowl three times. Check the porch for snakes. Whisper, “Not today, Satan,” as you spark it.

Viper Crumble is typically a sativa‑leaning hybrid known for its fast onset, bright energy, and “I suddenly feel like cleaning the pantry” motivation. Genetics vary by grower, but most versions come from Viper × Crumble Cake or similar high‑energy, citrus‑forward hybrids. Viper is a cross between Burmese Landrace × Blackseed. Crumble Cake is a cross between American Pie × (Jaeger × Skunk Dog) × Wedding Cake.

Viper Crumble doesn’t just hit. It lunges. This is the strain that shows up wearing camo shorts, holding a gas station slushie, and saying, “Sweetheart, it’s too hot to be stressed. Let me handle this.” It’s sharp. It’s sneaky. It’s the emotional venom extractor you didn’t know you needed. And if you’ve lived through a Mississippi July, you already know: When the heat rises, the snakes get bold. So does this strain.

Viper Crumble is typically a sativa‑leaning hybrid. And strains in this category, especially those rich in limonene, pinene, caryophyllene, and myrcene tend to offer a very specific set of reported therapeutic effects. Patients report relief from low energy, stress, mental fog, daytime fatigue, and that “I’m melting and everything irritates me” feeling. It’s a perfect strain for hot days, chores, creativity, or simply sitting on the porch judging the weather. Together, they create a strain that hits fast, lifts quick, and keeps your senses sharp. And it’s  perfect for a climate where even the reptiles are clocked in and ready for foolishness.

1. The Strike

It hits fast. It’s like stepping outside and immediately being slapped by humidity. Your brain wakes up. Your mood lifts. You suddenly remember every chore you’ve ignored since Easter.

2. The Slither

Euphoria winds through your chest slowly and smoothly. Thoughts loosen. You feel lighter, brighter, and slightly mischievous. Coco walks by and you swear she’s scouting for snakes like she’s on payroll.

3. The Shed

Your stress peels off like old skin. Your shoulders drop. You feel refreshed, alert, and ready to face the heat index like a seasoned Southerner who knows better than to walk barefoot in the yard.

When the Deep South gets hot, and I mean “air so thick you could butter it” hot, the snakes get active. They sun. They roam. They show up where they do not belong, like under porch steps, in flower beds, in the Dollar General parking lot, and once, famously, inside someone’s dryer vent (we don’t talk about that).

Viper Crumble is the Deep South summer strain for anyone who needs clarity, energy, and a little reptile‑level alertness. It’s bright, fast, and beautifully sharp. And the kind of high that makes you feel like you can handle the heat, the humidity, and whatever slithers across your path. But unlike the real reptiles, this one is here to help. Please keep in mind that each grow will be different and the flower’s effects will differ depending on which region of the country that the plant is grown. Thanks for reading! Keep blazin.

Affirmation: I stay sharp, steady, and unbothered. Even when the heat rises.

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Bless This Messy Rig: A Southern Oil Head’s 7/10 Revival Service

“On 7/10 we don’t just dab. We transcend. Reboot. And come back speaking in terpene.”

-This Puzzled Life

Light the charcoal. Today, we are not just sparking up. We are entering the high holy day of the Oil-Soaked, Dab-Dripped, Terp-Touched congregation known as  7/10. It’s the holiday where the concentrates come out. The rigs get blessed. And every Oil Head in the land rises like a phoenix covered in sticky resin.

Let me set the scene. It’s 7/10 morning. The sun is shining. Birds are chirping. Somewhere, a responsible adult is making breakfast. And then there’s you. You’re hunched over a torch like a medieval blacksmith forging destiny and whispering, “Just one little dab before I start my day.” Yet, knowing full well you’re about to time-travel into next Tuesday.

If 4/20 is the potluck.  7/10 is the communion. This is the day we honor the brave souls who looked at a perfectly good flower and said, “Cute. But what if we extracted its soul. Concentrated it. And inhaled it off a surface hotter than Satan’s griddle?”

Oil Heads are a special breed. We don’t cough. We ascend. We don’t get high. We interface with the divine. We don’t take a dab. We commit to the bit. And yes, 710 upside down spells OIL. This is the universe’s way of saying, “Y’all weren’t meant to be subtle.”

Every Oil Head has their own sacred traditions.

1. The Pre-Dab Pep Talk

You stand before your rig like a knight before battle. You whisper, “I’ve trained for this.” Even though you absolutely have not.

2. The Temperature Guessing Game

Is it too hot? Too cold? Will this dab taste like lemon zest and heaven? Or like licking a cast-iron skillet? Only the ancestors know.

3. The Post-Dab Existential Slide

You cough. You sweat. You briefly forget your own name. You see God. You apologize to God. You promise to do better. You immediately do not do better.

4. The Group Chat Roll Call

Everyone sends the same message in different fonts: “Bro I am so high.” “Ya’ll I’m so hiiii.” “I have transcended my body.” And finally, “Help.”

Concentrates are the overachievers of cannabis. They’re the honor-roll students. The valedictorians. The kids who did the extra credit even when the teacher said it was optional. Flower is the friend who shows up with a casserole. Oil is the friend who shows up with a flamethrower and a vision board. And it is the universe’s way of saying, “Congratulations, you’ve unlocked the advanced level of cannabis consumption. Please proceed with caution, hydration, and snacks.”

How to Celebrate 7/10 Like a True Oil Head

  • Bless your rig like it’s a family heirloom.
  • Take a dab the size of a lentil, not a lima bean (you’re not invincible).
  • Hydrate like you’re prepping for a desert marathon.
  • Have a chair nearby.
  • Have a second chair nearby in case the first chair becomes emotionally overwhelming.
  • Text your friends “Happy 7/10” even though none of you can currently operate a phone correctly.

So, let me leave you with this, “Oil Heads.” On this sacred 7/10, may your bangers stay seasoned. Your torches stay loyal. And your lungs stay just brave enough to pretend they didn’t see what you were about to do. May every dab you take today taste like citrus, victory, and the exact moment you realize you should’ve sat down first. May your snacks be abundant. Your water be cold. And your group chat be full of people who understand that “I’m fine” is Oil Head code for “I have briefly exited my body and am watching myself from the ceiling fan.” May your rig hit smooth. Your concentrates glisten like forbidden honey. And your soul ascend just high enough to remember why you love this ridiculous, resin-soaked community of chaos gremlins and terp scholars.

And if anyone dares judge you for celebrating 7/10 like it’s the Dab Olympics. Just smile. Flip that 710 upside down. And remind them that we don’t do this because it’s easy. We do this because flower could never. Happy 7/10 to the brave. The bold. The sweaty. The coughing. And the spiritually airborne. Happy 7/10 to the Oil Heads who dab like they’re trying to unlock a cheat code. Happy 7/10 to the ones who know that “just a little one” is the biggest lie in cannabis history.

May your day be high. Your spirit be higher. And your tolerance be absolutely nowhere to be found. May your rigs stay clean. Your temps stay low. And your soul stay high. Happy 7/10, Oil Heads! May your lungs forgive you and your snacks never run out. Mic dropped. Torch still roaring. Snacks already open. Thanks for reading! Keep dabbin.’

Affirmation: I honor my inner Oil Head. I take my dabs with courage. My snacks with gratitude. And my ascension with pride. My lungs are strong. My spirit is stronger. And today I rise like a dab taken at the perfect temp.

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Things I Trust More Than This Administration: A Field Guide to Funk, Foolishness, and Feral Cats

“If it smells bad, at least it’s not pretending to be leadership.”

-This Puzzled Life

The Light the charcoal. Sprinkle the sage. Let the ancestors pinch their noses and look away. Today we’re diving deeper into the olfactory underworld. We are not merely discussing stink. We are invoking it. We are calling forth the foul, the funky, the spiritually disrespectful aromas that have shaped us. Traumatized us. And strengthened our immune systems. 

This is not a blog post. This is a ritual of olfactory truth‑telling. The realm of smells so violent, spiritually disrespectful, and chemically aggressive that OSHA would need a prayer circle. And yet. I trust every single one of them more than the current administration.

Piper has already climbed onto the counter like a tiny, judgmental priestess. While waving her paw through the sage smoke like she’s blessing the space. Tinkerbell is pacing the hallway like she’s preparing to testify before Congress. Coco is sitting in the corner with her eyes half‑closed, whispering, “Mother, the air is lying to us.” And She’s right.

When the world is full of institutional nonsense. Bureaucratic gaslighting. And leadership that smells like a compost bin in August. Sometimes the only thing you can trust is the honest, unfiltered, unapologetic funk of everyday life. So, gather your courage. Gather your nose plugs. Gather your cats if they’re willing. We’re going in. Here is a list of stinky things I trust more than the current administration.

1. The Diaper With a Personal Vendetta

This diaper is not merely stinky. This diaper is sentient. It has a backstory. It has unresolved conflict. It has seen the rise and fall of civilizations. And is now wandering the earth like a cursed relic. It smells like betrayal, hot milk, and generational trauma.

Piper: “Momma, that diaper has a stronger moral compass than the entire federal budget.”

2. The Litter Box Couple in a Toxic Relationship

These two litter boxes have been together for years. They fight. They reconcile. They break up. They get back together. They smell like resentment and clumping clay. One is passive-aggressive. The other is emotionally unavailable. Together, they are the most stable relationship in the house.

Tinkerbell: “At least they own their mess. Can the administration say the same?”

3. The Onion That Has Gone Full Demon Mode

This onion has sprouted tentacles. It has opinions. It has a five‑year plan and a side hustle. It smells like a root vegetable that has lost its faith. You don’t throw this onion away. You negotiate with it.

Coco: “That onion has transparency. I respect that.”

4. The Gym Sock That Has Survived Three Regimes

This sock is crunchy. This sock is haunted. This sock has been to war metaphorically and possibly literally. It smells like despair, ambition, and a middle school locker room.

Piper: “That sock has done more for this country than the administration.”

5. The Trash Can You Forgot During a Heat Wave

This trash can smells like sin. It smells like regret. It smells like a decision you made at 2 a.m. that still haunts you. It has its own gravitational pull.

Tinkerbell: “At least the trash knows it’s trash. And doesn’t require a newly purchased jet to function.”

6. The Forgotten Tupperware in the Back of the Fridge

You know the one. You don’t open it. You don’t touch it. You don’t even look directly at it. It contains a life form that has achieved consciousness and is now applying for citizenship.

Coco: “That Tupperware has accountability. Revolutionary.”

7. The Muddy Boot That Never Fully Dries

This boot smells like mildew, swamp secrets, and the ghost of a crawfish boil. It has been through things. It has trauma. It has character development.

Piper: “That boot would never gaslight me.”

8. The Sponge You Should Have Thrown Away in 2019

This sponge is a biohazard. It is a microbial theme park. It smells like a wet gremlin. And yet? It is more reliable than any press briefing.

Tinkerbell: “That sponge has more structural integrity.”

9. The Bag of Salad That Turned Into Swamp Water Overnight

You bought it with good intentions. You blinked. It liquefied. It smells like a bog witch’s armpit.

Coco: “That salad at least tried to do something productive.”

And so, after reviewing diapers with emotional baggage and a vendetta. Litter boxes in codependent chaos  and in couples therapy. Onions with career goals. Haunted gym socks with PTSD. A liquefied bag of salad. And Tupperware that has achieved full spiritual ascension. One truth stands firm. We have toured the underworld of stink. The swamp of scents. The olfactory apocalypse itself. And the current administration? Give me the stink. Give me the chaos. Give me the onion with a five‑year plan. At least they don’t gaslight me.

There are many things in this world that stink. And after all that? I trust every single one of these foul, unholy, nose‑curling abominations more than I trust the current administration. Because at least the stink is honest.

At least the stink warns you before it ruins your day. At least the stink doesn’t pretend to be anything other than what it is. At least the stink owns its chaos instead of filing it under “pending review.” The administration? They’ll hand you a burning dumpster and call it “innovation.”

Piper is lighting sage like she’s trying to smoke out a demon. Tinkerbell is drafting a bill titled “The National Odor Accountability Act.” And Coco is in the corner filing a FOIA request with a clipboard whispering, “We need oversight. We need structure. We need a nose‑based justice system.” As for me? I’m opening a window and letting the truth air out. And my spirit guides begging me to stop reading the news before bed.

Let the record show itself carved into stone. Embroidered on a pillow. Tattooed on the lower back of democracy itself. I trust the stink. I believe the stink. I stand with the stink. And until the administration can match the moral clarity of a trash can in a heat wave? I’ll be over here with my cats, my sage, and my nose plugs. And I’ll be choosing the truth. Choosing the chaos. And choosing the funk. Thanks for reading! And watch this stinky administration cause chaos and ruin our democracy.

Affirmation: I release all illusions, delusions, and government issued nonsense.

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The Bitchuation Room: Not Flushing Public Toilets

“I didn’t wake up to choose violence. But my spirit, my schedule, and my digestive system clearly held a secret meeting without me.”

-This Puzzled Life

Light the charcoal. Sprinkle the sage. Today, I need spiritual reinforcement. I need divine intervention. I need the ancestors, the angels, and maybe even a hazmat team. Why? Because I have once again encountered the most baffling, lawless, civilization‑ending behavior known to humankind. And it’s the people who do not flush public toilets.

I’m not talking about toddlers. I’m not talking about someone in the middle of a plumbing emergency. I’m talking about full‑grown adults with jobs, vehicles, and voting rights walking away from a toilet like they’re leaving the scene of a crime. And I’m tired.

Clearly we need to cleanse this house, this neighborhood, and possibly the entire Deep South of the spiritual funk caused by grown adults who refuse to flush the commode. I’m not naming names. But if the shoe fits, it probably smells like the inside of a Dollar General bathroom after a power outage. The cats have convened an emergency meeting of the Feline Administration for Sanitation & Southern Decency. And let me tell you, they are fed up also.

Let me tell you something. Walking into a public bathroom in the South is like spinning a roulette wheel of trauma. You might get lucky and find a clean stall. Or you might open a door and see something that makes you reevaluate your entire relationship with humanity. I’ve walked into gas station bathrooms that smelled like someone tried to boil crawfish in holy water. I’ve walked into Walmart bathrooms where the lights flickered like the building was trying to warn me. I’ve walked into Dollar General bathrooms where the toilet seat was wet, and I didn’t ask a single question because I value my sanity. But the worst. The absolute worst is when someone leaves the toilet unflushed like it’s a public art installation titled “Chaos in Porcelain.”

I have questions. Deep, philosophical questions. Are people scared of the handle? Do they think the toilet is self‑cleaning? Are they performing a social experiment? Were they raised in a barn? Do they believe flushing is optional, like adding guac at Chipotle? I swear, some of these toilets look like someone tried to summon a demon and then got distracted.

Let me be clear. I have a list. A personal, emotional, spiritual list.

1. The gas‑station bathroom off Highway 49

The toilet was bubbling. I don’t know what was happening, but I left before it gained consciousness.

Piper’s Report: “I opened the door and immediately felt the presence of something unholy. The toilet was bubbling like it was trying to communicate. I will not be returning.” She has since saged her whiskers. The toilet made a noise that sounded like it was speaking in tongues.

2. The Walmart bathroom with the flickering lights

I opened the door and immediately felt like I was in a horror movie. I’m not auditioning to be the first one taken out. Absolutely not.

Tinkerbell’s Report: “I stepped inside and the lights flickered like a horror movie. I’m a cat, not a final girl. Absolutely not.” She then crossed herself even though she’s not religious. 

Reason for Blacklisting: The stall door creaked open on its own. No one was inside. We left Immediately.

3. The Dollar General bathroom

If you know, you know. If you don’t know, keep it that way. Protect your peace.

Coco’s Report: “I don’t know what happened in there, but it smelled like someone tried to microwave a swamp. I’m not emotionally equipped for that.” She refused to make eye contact for the rest of the day.

Reason for Blacklisting: The toilet seat was wet. From what? We don’t ask questions in this house.

4. The Target bathroom with the graffiti warning

When a wall says, “Don’t look in the third stall,” that’s not a suggestion. That’s a prophecy. And I ignored it. And I regret it. 

Tinkerbell’s Report: “The wall said, ‘Don’t look in the third stall.’ So naturally, I looked. I regret everything.” She has not spoken of what she saw.

Reason for Blacklisting: The third stall. That’s all we’re legally allowed to say.

5. The Buc‑ee’s bathroom that was suspiciously clean

Too clean. Uncomfortably clean. Like “someone is watching” clean. 

Piper’s Report: “It was suspicious. No bathroom should sparkle like that. It felt like a trap.” She sniffed every corner like a bomb‑sniffing dog.

Reason for Blacklisting: Cleanliness so intense it felt like surveillance.

6. The Mall Bathroom With the Unflushed Situation

Coco’s Report: “I walked in, saw the unflushed disaster, and immediately filed a complaint with the universe. I’m still recovering.” She wrote his trauma memoir in crushed Goldfish cracker powder.

Reason for Blacklisting: The toilet bowl looked like a Jackson Pollock painting of regret.

7. The Park Bathroom With No Door

Tinkerbell’s Report: “I am a lady. I require privacy. I will not be conducting my business in an open‑air amphitheater.” She left with her dignity intact.

Reason for Blacklisting: No door. No lock. No hope.

I’m not asking for much. I’m not asking for aromatherapy diffusers or marble countertops or a choir of angels singing while I pee. I’m asking for one flush. One. Single. Flush. If you sprinkle, tinkle, plop, drop, splash, crash, or otherwise contribute anything to that toilet, flush it. It costs nothing. It takes one second. And it prevents trauma. May your public bathrooms be clean, your stalls be empty, and may you never again open a door and see something that requires therapy.

And so, as we gather our belongings, our dignity, and whatever spiritual protection we have left, let us remember this simple truth that  Public bathrooms don’t have to be war zones. They don’t have to be escape rooms. They don’t have to be archaeological digs where you discover what the last person ate in 2007. All they require is for people to flush the commode like they were raised by humans and not released into the wild by accident.

Piper has spoken. Coco has unionized. Tinkerbell has filed a formal complaint with the ancestors. And together, they leave you with this final Southern blessing. “May your stalls be clean, your floors be dry, and may you never again encounter a toilet that looks like it needs a wellness check.” Amen, Ashe, and flush it.

If a bathroom requires courage, prayer, or a tetanus shot, the cats are out. If the toilet is unflushed, they’re out. If the air feels thick enough to chew, they’re out. And honestly? Same.

THE PUBLIC BATHROOM SURVIVAL GUIDE:

As mandated by the Feline Administration for Sanitation & Southern Decency

1. ENTER AT YOUR OWN RISK

Public bathrooms are not “restrooms.” They are escape rooms with plumbing. If you walk in and immediately smell something that makes your eyelashes curl backward, congratulations you’ve entered Level 1. Piper calls this “The Warm Welcome.” She says if the air feels chewy, turn around.

2. THE FLUSHING CRISIS: A NATIONAL EMERGENCY

Let’s address the porcelain elephant in the room. Why are people not flushing? Is it rebellion? Is it laziness? Is it generational trauma? Is it a cry for help? Tinkerbell says it’s a lack of home training. Coco says it’s a lack of supervision. Piper says it’s a lack of Jesus. I say it’s all three.

3. THE CATS’ OFFICIAL OBSERVATIONS

PIPER (Baby Chaos, Bathroom Anthropologist):

“Some of these toilets look like someone tried to summon a demon and then got scared halfway through. Flush it. I’m too young for this.” She now carries emotional support treats.

COCO (Snack Lobbyist & Public Restroom Union Rep):

“I’ve seen gas‑station toilets that looked like they needed a wellness check. If I can cover my business in a litter box and still be decent enough to bury it, humans can push a handle.” She then filed a petition written in crushed Goldfish cracker powder, because he believes in snack‑based activism.

TINKERBELL (Dignity Enforcement Officer):

“I walked into a Walmart bathroom and saw something that made me reconsider reincarnation. I will not be returning.” She has since created a personal Do‑Not‑Enter list that includes any bathroom with flickering lights, any bathroom with a wet floor for “mysterious reasons,” any bathroom where the toilet seat is up AND the stall door is unlocked, and any bathroom with graffiti that says, “Don’t look in the third stall.”

4. THE RULES OF SURVIVAL

Rule #1: If you make it, you flush it.

This is kindergarten-level stuff. If you can operate a smartphone, you can operate a toilet.

Rule #2: If the toilet looks like it’s fighting for its life, choose another stall.

Do not be a hero. This is not your battle.

Rule #3: If the floor is wet, assume the worst.

Do not investigate. Do not sniff. Do not ask questions. Just hover like your mama taught you.

Rule #4: Never trust a gas‑station bathroom after 10 p.m.

Coco calls this “The Witching Hour.”

Rule #5: If the hand dryer sounds like a jet engine, it’s lying.

It will not dry your hands. It will only blow your sins back at you.

Today we not only cleansed the house. We cleansed society. Specifically, the part of society that walks into a public bathroom, commits a biological felony, and then strolls out like they’re headed to a church potluck. I’m convinced some people think public toilets are interactive art installations. Or maybe they believe the commode is a museum exhibit titled “The Human Condition.”

So, let’s be honest. If you wouldn’t leave your own toilet looking like that, why are you doing it in public? This is not a scavenger hunt. This is not a science experiment. This is not a performance art piece titled “Chaos in Porcelain.” It’s a toilet. Flush it. We’ve cleansed the energy of every gas station, Walmart, Buc‑ee’s, and Dollar General bathroom from here to the Gulf Coast. The cats say it’s a public health crisis. I say it’s a moral failing. Together, we say, “FLUSH THE DAMN COMMODE!” Thanks for reading! And beware of unflushed toilets.

Affirmation: I honor my chaos, laugh at my disasters, and rise today knowing that even when life goes sideways, I still show up shining, hydrated, and unbothered.

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The Stars, The Stripes & The Cats Who Won’t Let Freedom Fall Off the Counter 7.4

“Cats understand Independence Day better than anyone. They’ve been declaring freedom from authority since the moment they opened their eyes.”

 — Tinkerbell, Level‑Headed Elder Stateswoman of the Living Room

Down here in the Deep South, July 4th isn’t just a date on a calendar. It’s a full-bodied experience. A cultural thunderclap. A reminder that freedom has always been loud. Messy. And worth fighting for. The humidity is thick enough to baptize you. The mosquitoes are running a coordinated military campaign. And someone’s uncle is always one sparkler away from a cautionary tale. The air also gets thick enough to chew. The cicadas start hollerin’ like they’re running for office. And the whole world smells faintly of barbecue.

And right in the middle of this Southern symphony, my three cats. But inside my house, another sacred tradition unfolds. Piper, Coco, and Tinkerbell gather for their annual Independence Day Democracy Summit. This year’s theme: “Freedom, Fireworks, and the Big Orange Cat Who Keeps Testing the Constitution.”

Piper, Coco, and Tinkerbell gather like a furry constitutional convention. Piper arrives dressed as Miss Firecracker. Coco shows up ready to filibuster for snacks. And Tinkerbell takes her seat like the level‑headed elder stateswoman she is. And prepared to keep the republic intact with nothing but patience and a well‑timed sigh. Because in this house, democracy isn’t an abstract idea. It’s alive. It’s chaotic. And it’s covered in cat hair.

Piper (Miss Firecracker, vibrating with patriotic energy): “Okay y’all, HISTORY TIME! A long, long time ago, before Temptations treats existed, America was just a bunch of humans living under a big boss called a king.”

Coco: “A king who didn’t even live here. Imagine someone in another house telling us when we can eat snacks. Couldn’t be me.”

Tinkerbell (level‑headed, adjusting her tiny bow):“The colonies were under British rule. They paid taxes but had no say in the laws. It was undemocratic and unsustainable.”

Piper: “Exactly! So, the humans said, “We’re tired of this nonsense!” And BOOM! They wrote the Declaration of Independence.”

Coco: “Basically a breakup letter with extra drama.”

Tinkerbell: “A foundational document asserting that people have rights consisting of life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness.”

Piper: “And snacks! Don’t forget snacks!”

Tinkerbell: “Snacks were not mentioned.”

Coco: “They were implied.”

Piper: “Anyway, they sent that letter to the king, and he was mad. But the humans stood their ground. Fought a whole war. And eventually formed a new country based on democracy.”

Tinkerbell: “A system where power comes from the people. Not one big boss.”

Coco: “Unless the Big Orange Cat gets his way.”

Piper: “Not on my watch! Miss Firecracker protects the Constitution!”

Tinkerbell: “Lord help us all.”

Piper (the baby patriot, dressed as Miss Firecracker): “BOOM! I’m ready to defend democracy, y’all!”

She’s wearing a red‑white‑and‑blue tutu, a sparkly sash that says MISS FIRECRACKER, and enough enthusiasm to power a Waffle House at 3 a.m.

Coco (the chaos middle child): “I move that we begin with snacks. Preferably the crunchy ones.”

Tinkerbell (the level‑headed elder stateswoman):“Let’s maintain order. And dignity. And maybe not set anything on fire this year.”

Me: “Tinkerbell, sweetheart, that’s a big ask.”

Piper: “Anyway, they sent that letter to the king, he got mad, a whole war happened, and eventually the humans formed a new country based on democracy.”

1. “Freedom means sparkles, snacks, and yelling ‘YEEHAW!’ at sunrise.” — Piper, Miss Firecracker

Piper believes the Founding Fathers would’ve loved glitter. Fireworks should be legal year‑round. And democracy is best defended by yelling loudly and wearing sequins. She salutes the ceiling fan. “For America and snacks!”

2. “Democracy is like a potluck. Everyone brings something. Even if it’s a mess.” — Coco

Coco explains that everyone gets a voice. Nobody knows what’s happening. And someone always starts a fight over the deviled eggs. She knocks over a mason jar of sweet tea to demonstrate “institutional fragility.”

3. “Freedom requires responsibility. And someone has to keep these two from burning the house down.” — Tinkerbell

Tinkerbell believes that democracy is sacred. Rules matter. Piper should not be allowed near fireworks, matches, or anything labeled “flammable.”

She adjusts her tiny patriotic bow and sighs like a Southern grandmother who’s seen too much.

Piper: “The Big Orange Cat is trying to take over everything.”

Coco: “He keeps knocking over the Constitution like it’s a roll of toilet paper.”

Tinkerbell: “He’s dismantling democracy one paw swipe at a time. It’s undignified.”

They list his alleged offenses such as he’s sitting on the separation of powers. He’s swatting at voting rights. He’s acting like rules don’t apply to him. He yells constantly. And he’s treating the Constitution like a scratching post. Piper stomps her tiny Miss Firecracker foot. “He’s a menace to freedom!” Tinkerbell nods gravely. “Bless his heart, but that’s not how governance works.” And after a heated debate (and one brief intermission where Piper tried to ignite a sparkler indoors), the cats issued their proclamation:

“Independence Day matters because democracy is fragile. Freedom is sacred. And the Big Orange Cat cannot be allowed to treat the Constitution like a chew toy. We honor this day with snacks, naps, sparkles, and the courage to stand up for what’s right. Even if we’re tiny.”

Tinkerbell added a footnote: “Please supervise Piper at all times.”

July 4th reminds us that democracy takes all kinds. It accepts the firecrackers, the chaos agents, and the level‑headed guardians who keep everyone from blowing up the porch. And if Piper, Coco, and Tinkerbell can navigate constitutional crises with humor, heart, and Southern grit, the rest of us can surely manage one respectful conversation over barbecue.

At the end of the day, July 4th isn’t just about fireworks  or cookouts or who brought the best potato salad. It’s about remembering that democracy is a living thing. It’s a fragile, precious, and always one paw swipe away from chaos if we’re not paying attention. Piper may be tiny. Coco may be unhinged. And Tinkerbell may be the only adult in the room. But together they understand something deep. Freedom takes all of us. The sparkly ones. The loud ones. The steady ones. And the ones who show up even when the world feels heavy.

So, as the smoke clears. And the porch lights flicker on, we honor this day the way Southerners always have. With grit, humor, stubborn hope, and a fierce belief that the story of this country is still being written. And in this house, that story is guarded by three cats who refuse to let the Big Orange Cat scratch holes in the Constitution.

Because freedom matters. Democracy matters. And in this little Mississippi home, we’ll defend both with sparkles, snacks, and the kind of Southern backbone that doesn’t break, even when the world shakes. Thanks for reading! God Bless America!

Affirmation: “I stand in my power with the steady courage of Tinkerbell. The bold fire of Piper. And the unshakable resilience to rise above any Big Orange Cat trying to knock over my peace.”

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Budtender Moment: Chronic Boom Strain Review

“Chronic Boom hit me so hard I thought the fireworks started early. But it was just my serotonin returning from war.”

 -Darla Jean “Stars‑and‑Sighs” McCoy, Unofficial Firework Safety Officer

Light the grill. Salute the sky. And tell Piper to stop chewing the tiny American flag again. We’re about to drop a full‑on Independence Day Budtender Moment for Chronic Boom. The strain that celebrates freedom by blowing up your stress like a backyard firework that may or may not be legal in Mississippi. Tap the bowl three times. Pledge allegiance to your peace. Whisper “let freedom ring” as you spark it.

Chronic Boom doesn’t just hit. It liberates. This is the strain that shows up wearing red‑white‑and‑blue Crocs, holding a sparkler, and saying, “Sweetheart, we’re overthrowing your anxiety today.” It’s patriotic. It’s chaotic. It’s the emotional emancipation proclamation you didn’t know you needed.

Chronic Boom is typically a balanced hybrid, leaning slightly indica‑dominant depending on the breeder. It’s typically a cross between Chronic x Boom. Chronic is a cross between Northern Lights × Skunk × AK‑47. Boom is a cross between (Blueberry × OG Kush) × (Chemdawg × Skunk). And with all of that in there, there’s no way that this strain could fail. Together, they create a hybrid that feels like Thomas Jefferson wrote a Declaration of Chill.

Top terpenes for this strain are Limonene, Myrcene, Caryophyllene, and Pinene. Patients report relief from stress, low mood, fatigue, mild pain, and that “I’m one inconvenience away from seceding” feeling. It hits in phases that feel suspiciously like a patriotic parade. The Anthem Your brain stands up straight and salutes. You feel alert, lifted, and ready to declare independence from nonsense. The Fireworks Euphoria pops off in your chest like a grand finale. Everything is funny. Even the cat judging you. The Afterglow Warm body melt. Shoulders drop. You whisper, “I am my own country now.”

Chronic Boom is the Independence Day strain for anyone who wants to laugh, relax, and overthrow their inner tyrant. It’s bold, bright, and beautifully chaotic. And just like a Southern July 4th where someone inevitably yells, “Y’all watch this!” Please keep in mind that each grow will be different and the flower’s effects will differ depending on which region of the country that the plant is grown. Thanks for reading! Keep blazin.’

Affirmation: I release what weighs me down and celebrate the freedom to feel good.

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Budtender Moment: GMO Infused Preroll Review

“This preroll hit me so hard I forgot what I was mad about and who I was mad at.”

-This Puzzled Life

Light the charcoal. Sprinkle the sage. Negative energy, go away. Now that the vibes are cleansed and the ancestors have been notified. Because we’re about to talk about the GMO infused preroll. It’s the funky little garlic‑diesel diva that shows up uninvited and still becomes the life of the party.

If you’ve ever wanted a preroll that smells like a garlic knot got into a bar fight with a diesel truck and walked away victorious, this is your moment. GMO doesn’t just relax you. It folds you like warm laundry and whispers, “Sweetheart, sit down before you hurt yourself.”

GMO aka Garlic Cookies is an indica-dominant strain. It is a cross between Girl Scout Cookies × Chemdawg. GSC is the glamorous troublemaker born from Durban Poison x OG Kush Chemdawg is legendary, mysterious, and messy. It’s like a Southern family reunion where nobody agrees on who’s related to who. This is the accepted origin story. Unknown Colorado “Dog bud” × Unknown high‑potency mystery strain (Yes, really. The genetics are famously undocumented, debated, and wrapped in lore.) Chemdawg is the parent of Diesel strains, OG Kush lines, and half the modern cannabis family tree. It’s the funky, fuel‑soaked granddaddy of chaos. You’re basically smoking Durban Poison’s uplift, OG Kush’s heavy relaxation And Chemdawg’s diesel funk and brain‑melting potency. No wonder GMO tastes like garlic sautéed in a mechanic’s garage and hits like a spiritual intervention. With the flavor profile being garlic, earth, diesel, and “this tastes like a delicious felony,” you know it has to be good.

The major terpenes in this strain are Caryophyllene, Myrcene, Limonene, and Humulene. Patients report relief from stress and anxiety, pain reduction, sleep support, and appetite boost (even though humulene tries to fight it like a tiny mall cop). And trust me, you’ll sleep. And COUCH LOCK ALERT!

The GMO infused preroll is for the brave, the tired, and the spiritually overbooked. Light it, breathe deep, and let the garlic‑diesel goddess tuck you into the softest mental blanket you’ve ever known. Please keep in mind that each grow will be different and the flower’s effects will differ depending on which region of the country that the plant is grown. Thanks for reading! Keep blazin.’

Affirmation: “I am calm, I am grounded, and I am absolutely unavailable for nonsense while this GMO settles my spirit.”

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Why Does The Gay Community Keeps Getting Treated Like The Federal Government’s Emotional Support Scapegoat?

“If drag queens were dangerous, the Pentagon would’ve hired them already.”

-This Puzzled Life

Light the Charcoal. Sprinkle the Sage. This is a queer survival sermon for a country that keeps missing the point. And also, a sermon for the people in the back. But first we need to spiritually fumigate the room. The hypocrisy is thick. The contradictions are bold. And the political theater is so dramatic it deserves its own theme song.

Let the smoke rise like a Southern mama’s eyebrow when she hears someone say, “I’m not homophobic, but…” The “but” is always where the foolishness lives. And if the government spent half as much time fixing real problems as they do trying to regulate drag queens, pronouns, and who gets to pee where, this country would have free healthcare, affordable housing, a postal system that doesn’t lose your packages, and potholes filled with ethically sourced glitter.

But no. Instead, they’re out here acting like LGBTQIA+ people are a glitter‑powered militia plotting to overthrow the Republic with brunch menus and Beyoncé remixes. If queer people had that kind of power, the Capitol would’ve been redecorated in jewel tones and mood lighting decades ago.

Reason #1: We’re too fabulous to regulate

Bureaucracy loves order. It loves forms. It loves rules like “sign here, here, here, and also initial your soul.”But queer people? We show up like, “gender is more interesting than your filing cabinet.”, “no, I will not shrink myself to make you comfortable.” And “yes, this outfit is a political statement.” Trans folks especially break every boring little box the government tries to stuff people into. And nothing terrifies a bureaucracy more than a human being who refuses to be reduced to a checkbox.

Reason #2: Trans people expose the government’s worst fear. That identity is personal, not regulated

Trans people walk around every day proving that identity is self‑determined. Autonomy is real. Bodily freedom is non‑negotiable. And gender is not a federal highway with only two exits. That level of self‑possession shakes the table harder than a Pentecostal praise break.

Reason #3: We’re the easiest group to blame when they don’t want to talk about real problems

When the government doesn’t want to talk about healthcare, poverty, infrastructure, climate, wages, or why the DMV line is still 4 hours long. They go, “Quick! Hand me a queer person to blame!” It’s classic misdirection. It’s kind of like a magician. But instead of pulling a rabbit out of a hat, they pull out a bill restricting drag brunches.

Reason #4: The demonization is loud and the contradictions are louder

Let’s talk about the demonization of queer and trans people. The irony is so thick you could spread it on a biscuit. Some folks in the conservative political world will stand at a podium. Clutch a Bible like it’s a backstage pass to heaven. And declare that queer people are destroying America. And then turn around and behave in ways that would make a drag queen whisper, “Now baby, that’s between you and your therapist.”

It’s giving public morality, private chaos. And do as I say, not as I do. If hypocrisy were a sport, some of y’all would have Olympic medals.

Reason #5: Demonizing queer people while trying to sanitize harmful behavior elsewhere

Here’s where the sage needs to burn a little hotter. There’s a bizarre cultural pattern where some people loudly demonize LGBTQIA+ folks while simultaneously trying to downplay, excuse, or normalize harmful behavior in other areas that actually put children at risk. It’s the strangest double standard. A drag queen reading a book? “Danger!” Actual conversations about protecting kids from real harm? “Let’s not be dramatic.” It’s like living in a world where the smoke alarm goes off every time someone lights a birthday candle. But stays silent when the kitchen is actually on fire.

This contradiction isn’t about morality. It’s about distraction. It’s about misdirection. It’s about making sure nobody notices the real issues tap‑dancing in the background wearing tap shoes from Hobby Lobby.

Reason #6: Drag queens are too powerful

Drag queens have stage presence, community influence, sequins, microphones, and the ability to read a senator to filth without breaking a nail. The government knows if drag queens ever unionize, it’s over. The Pentagon cannot compete with a well‑timed death drop.

Reason #7: Queer joy is resistance

Queer people, especially trans folks, have mastered the art of joy in a world that keeps trying to dim them. That joy is political. That joy is rebellious. That joy is contagious. And nothing scares a system built on conformity more than people who refuse to be ashamed.

Reason #8: We don’t die quietly. We organize.

Every time the government tries to scapegoat the LGBTQIA+ community, queer folks respond with mutual aid, court challenges, community networks, fundraisers, marches, and a drag show themed “You Tried It, But We’re Still Here.” We don’t disappear. We get louder, smarter, and more fabulous.

Reason #9: We hold up a mirror 

Queer and trans people reveal truths about society. And these truths are, who gets protected? Who gets ignored? Who gets punished for existing? And who gets celebrated for conformity?

When you hold up a mirror to power, power tends to say, “Actually, could you put that mirror down? I don’t like the lighting.” And the moment power starts whining about the lighting, that’s when my cats kick the door open like, ‘Oh, you don’t like the reflection? Don’t worry. We brought a whole panel discussion and a ring light.’”

PIPER: I’ve called this emergency press conference because the humans are once again blaming queer folks for things they didn’t do. And frankly, I’m tired.

TINKERBELL: I have reviewed the allegations and found them to be stupid. Deeply stupid. Embarrassingly stupid.

COCO: I knocked a plant off the shelf this morning and nobody blamed the gays for that. So, clearly the government is slipping.

PIPER: They’re out here demonizing queer people while ignoring actual problems. Meanwhile, I’ve been asking for universal basic treats for YEARS.

TINKERBELL: And the hypocrisy? Whew. They’re clutching pearls about drag queens reading books while ignoring harmful behavior elsewhere. The math ain’t mathing.

COCO: If they cared about children, they’d ban vacuum cleaners. Those things are TERRIFYING.

PIPER: Focus, Coco.

COCO: I am focused. Focused on justice. And snacks.

TINKERBELL: Motion to declare queer people fabulous and not the problem.

COCO: Motion to add snacks.

PIPER: Motions passed. Democracy lives.

COCO: Why do some people scream “protect the children” every time a drag queen opens a book? But go silent when real issues show up like uninvited relatives at Thanksgiving?

TINKERBELL: It’s giving “I don’t read, so nobody else should either.”

PIPER: It’s like yelling at a houseplant for being too green. While ignoring the raccoon in the pantry.

TINKERBELL: The contradictions are louder than Coco knocking over a water glass at 3 a.m.

COCO: I knock things over for justice.

PIPER: And then there’s the “family values” crowd behaving like a soap opera plot twist.

TINKERBELL: If you’re going to preach morality, try living it for more than 12 minutes.

COCO: Twelve minutes is generous.

PIPER: In conclusion: Distraction. Deflection. Drama. And occasionally, pure comedy.

Let the last of the smoke curl around the truth they keep trying to hide. Queer people and especially trans folks aren’t the threat. We’re the reminder. We’re the proof that freedom is possible. We’re the living, breathing evidence that identity cannot be legislated into a filing cabinet. And that scares the hell out of systems built on control.

So the next time someone tries to blame the LGBTQIA+ community for society’s problems, smile sweetly and say, “Baby, if queer people had that much power, this country would be running smoother than a drag queen’s legs on pageant night.”  Sequins still sparkling.

Affirmation: I shine so brightly that even when power flinches at its own reflection. I stay rooted, radiant, and unbothered. My truth is steady. My joy is sacred. And no amount of misdirection can dim what was never theirs to control.

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